Shut the fuck up. All us nice guys stuck in fucking friendzone know what you really want is some asshole to complain about to us. GTFO. We’re tired of it.
You sound super nice. I don’t know why no one wants to date you.
What a mystery.
I’ve had a bad day ok. I’ve pretty much given this girl, who I’m really close with, my heart and she shoots me down and starts telling me about all the guy problems. It just really fucking hurts and I felt here would be a better place to vent then some of my other options.
You know what? I know what it feels like to rejected. It fucking sucks and a lot of people are able to relate to what you’re feeling. You know what else I know? I know what it feels like to build a friendship with a guy. A guy that was nice and treated me like a human being instead of walking vagina he wants to fuck. I know what it’s like to become friends with a guy like this and slowly start to trust him. Slowly we build a really meaningful relationship and I let my guard down and I start to show him vulnerable parts of myself. I start to share my fears and weaknesses with him. I start relying on this important person in my life for support when I find out that I’m being dicked around by another guy who only sees me as a walking vagina he wants to fuck. And then this guy that I really care about tells me that he has feelings for me and when I tell him that I don’t feel the same way, he turns around and calls me a bitch. He says I friendzoned him and he goes on some social networking site and starts blasting me and all of his friends are like “wow what a bitch. She doesn’t know what she’s missing” and he gets to pity himself and feel validated. I, on the other hand, am left with the realization that my friendship, that this closeness we shared didn’t mean jack shit. That this guy I trusted didn’t care enough about me as a person to not turn on me the second he found out I wouldn’t date/have sex with him. Suddenly, I’m feeling this whole time, everything I thought we had, was only as important to him as his chances to get in my pants. And let me tell you, that hurts way more than rejection.
Here’s the thing, buddy. You’re not just one guy who’s having a bad day because you had your heart broken. Browse the friend zone tag. You’re just one of the many guys that post things like pictures that say “when a girl starts telling you about her problems, she’s not complaining. It means she trust you” and the caption says “Aaaannnd you’ve been friendzoned” like having a platonic, meaningful relationship with a woman is just THE WORST FUCKING THING EVER. Do you know how shitty it feels to know that your friendship and your trust is so fucking undesirable that there’s a goddamn meme about it? Do you know how shitty it feels to know that your guy friends only care you as long as they can hold on to the possibility of one day fucking you? Do you know how infuriating it is to know that that guy, that asshole who made you think he cared about you as a person, gets to flame you for daring to not be attracted to him? Because if you don’t know what that feels like, let me tell you that you’re not the one who got the shit end of the deal.
still cryin’ about lack of varric romance tbqh
30 Days of Art - Day 15
Some sickly sweet Borra before the new episode. :3 JPG and gif.
…sorry, I thought it was two men…
I don’t understand why some of the people in the legend of korra fandom seem to be okay with cheating?
I mean I see comments like ‘YEAH I’M GLAD KORRA KISSED MAKO’ um
Mako was dating Asami. He cheated on his girlfriend with someone who, face it, doesn’t really know him. Asami doesn’t really know Mako either but the scarf deal, I mean, as far as I remember, not even Korra knows the meaning behind it. So, I mean, Mako and Asami have developed further and more then Mako and Korra.
The only really bonding they had was searching for Bolin.
But their “Relationship” started because, ‘OH HE’S HOT WHO IS HE I LIKE HIM’ and Mako was a flat out jerk to her until they did that search and Mako realized Korra was cool, but cool enough to date? Then Asami came in and fkjgnzdkfjn they didn’t even be friends first, there is no real ground. It’s just ‘hey you’re hot I like you’ oh and after only knowing him for like what a month or two she goes ‘I LOVE YOU WE’RE MADE FOR EACH OTHER’. That’s usually the signal that ‘OH SHIT SHE’S CRAZY. RUN. RUN FAST.’
Asami smacked Mako with her bike and was like ‘omg omg i’m so sorry let me make it up to you’ and then they started dating. I don’t think she was like ‘HERE I HAVE MONEY DATE ME’. She probably asked him first, probably before loaning him the money he needed because she didn’t want it to be like ‘oh you owe me’.
But she’s a powerful person, or was, and she oogled Mako from the side because she watched probending. She could have used her abilities as a Sato to meet Mako much earlier than she did. But she probably didn’t want to stoop that low. So she’s not that bad of a person, knownig that she could have done that but didn’t. If she wanted to meet him, she wanted it to be a normal meeting, not because her daddy is rich and she has special connections.
It just feels like, Asami/Mako is more real than Mako/Korra. There’s more of a stable ground.
But seeing Mako cheat on Asami? Goddamn, he’s not someone you really want to trust. He’s got two girls he doesn’t even know that well (by now they’re close, yeah, but in the beginning they weren’t) fighting for him and he cheats on one with the other because he can’t pick?
I mean, if you can’t pick, you don’t date either and you decide before you hurt someone.
So now Asami is forced with dealing with her dad betraying her and now her boyfriend too?
So yeah, I feel bad for Asami in that area but I’m still irked by the cheating and I don’t think Mako is the best guy ever, just because he’s hot. He was just.. he kissed Korra back and idk, I don’t think he’s the best guy ever, even for Korra. I don’t really think he deserves to be with anyone because I personally, don’t think I could ever trust Mako. He isn’t really proving himself as trustworthy, I mean, he was okay with hurting his brother too and shoving the blame on Korra. He knows how his brother feels and, despite having a girlfriend, isn’t that when you push away and go ‘no no I can’t do this, this isn’t right’ blahblahblah.
I mean he cares so much for Bolin, so why would he do that and hurt him and fkgnzflkjgfzn idk. Asami is more trustworthy than Mako, honestly. He might be a good guy, but he doesn’t sound like he’s a good guy to date.
THIS YES TO ALL OF THIS